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Archive for ‘DIY wedding planning’

November 23rd, 2010

bridal-ish part 2 of 2

After we left the tree-covered road we headed to downtown Grapevine. Such a cute and vintage-ish place, great for taking pictures – and getting honked at.

This particular restaurant/bar called “Chill” seemed like the perfect backdrop to my OCD self.  Lord knows I need a constant reminder to chill!

Finally, we made one last stop in Flower Mound, where I had found a little bridge nestled in between some tall trees in a neighborhood. I love going for drives and turning down streets I’ve never been down. Sometimes it’s a dead end, but other times I get to go on a journey that my eyes have never imagined. And sometimes it’s just boring.  This spot was anything but!

I had so much fun getting dressed in my gown and taking pictures around the towns I’ve grown to love over the past 10 years. However, I had no idea it would pale so greatly in comparison to when I would walk down the aisle in that very gown, toward Thomas (T)…  More to come on that later!

November 22nd, 2010

bridal-ish part 1 of 2

Here are a smattering of the bridal portraits I had taken. It was cool because since I got engaged I knew I’d want photos of myself in my bridal gown in certain places. For example – when I drove to work a couple of times a week I would drive by these fields of bright yellow flowers – and I could literally see myself in them, white dress billowing in the wind. In fact, one day on my way to work I noticed a great pasture that had a “For Sale” sign in it and decided to call the number to see if they would give me proper permission to have some photos taken in their pasture….although lack of permission never stopped me before…

Very curtly the lady said “NO.” Here I was thinking I’d do her a favor – her lot had been for sale for a LONG time and I doubt she was getting much attention. But throw a bride out there at the peak of rush hour (which coincidentally happens to have the best lighting for photos) and they just might get some hits. Her loss!

Back to square one I had almost given up on the idea of taking photos in a field littered with wildflowers until I got a brilliant idea. It was the day of the photoshoot and seeing as how my photog for the event is also my BFF, she’s not hard to bribe convince.  We pulled over off the farm road of a certain pasture (not the one I had called), gathered up the props, dress, shoes and ourselves. Tapped the fence (to make sure it wasn’t electric) and hopped over. We of course waited until no one was driving by. Then we ran through the field will all our entourage and set up camp by some trees on the pasture.  Cow patties were rampant. So were bees. But by-golly I was getting my pictures in a field. I stripped down to my undergarments, slipped on my dress and heels, and the show began. A little glimpse into what transpired in that field as two BFF’s/brides-to-be illegally trespassed in the name of good photography:

Once we got all the shots, I changed back into my shorts and tank, gathered up all the stuff, dodged the cow patties and bees – and we headed back to the car – on to the next destination!

The second location must be one of my all time beloved places. It’s this quaint country road that I used to travel everyday to work. It was a long, straight stretch of road that was covered from start to finish in a bountiful canopy of trees. In winter when snow fell, it was like a covered bridge of it’s own. In summer the bright green leaves let just the smallest amount of sunlight peak through.  It’s straight out of a dream…

Speaking of dreams…mine are waiting for me. Tomorrow I’ll post the second half of the photos! Goodnight!

August 16th, 2010

Wedding Stress

I’m a tense person by nature. I’ll admit that. I’m the Type-A who takes pride in being an A+ Type A. I always have tense and hard-as-a-rock shoulders because that’s where I carry my stress. I also have IBS and I’m sure high blood pressure at times too. These are all simply by-products of the life I lead. I live with stress. Daily. Because I like everything to be PERFECT. And when it’s not, I FREAK.

However, I’m not your OCD-needs-to-be-on-TV-for-my-disorder kind of freakishly perfect. I just like the illusion of control in my life and circumstances.  But I’ll be the first to admit it: I’m really NEVER in control, because that’s God’s role! Despite that realization I fight for my illusion almost daily.

The wedding is no exception to this mindset. I don’t know if it’s the nagging feeling I have that I’m forgetting something, or if it’s the fact that we have less than two months to go, but I feel like a wave of stress has crashed over me! Is this normal at the less-than-two-month-mark? Or should I start blaming this on my birth control? Because it’s really starting to freak me out that tablecloth colors and fake flowers are taking the weight of world peace and an end to world hunger.

Gosh, sometimes I’m so lame.

August 10th, 2010

2 months to go


WOW. Seriously? I can hardly believe the last time I posted we had 4 months left and now we have HALF that time! Thomas and I had a goal that I’d be finished with the wedding planning one month out. So basically that means I have 4 weeks left to tie up the final details!

AHHH!

{Enter copious amounts of stress now…}

Seriously though – I’ve been getting that feeling. You know, the one where you’re forgetting something? Except I’m pretty sure I’ve checked every checklist available for brides-to-be! I think I’m just not sure they are truly comprehensive checklists. What could I be forgetting!?!?!